These days I find that the hardest thing to correct in a couple’s bedroom is the many tasks going on that a bedroom is not intended for. A bedroom is not meant for watching TV, eating, reading books, exercising or working on a laptop/tablet. A bedroom is intended for passion and rejuvenation….only! The modern day multitasking bedroom has taken its toll on our health as well as our relationships. Funny how we wouldn’t go to the kitchen table to sleep but we’ll bring the kitchen table to the bedroom with our snacks and drinks! Then we wonder why we toss and turn all night so we take a pill to help us sleep which helps in the beginning but it starts to work against us after a while which makes us irritable which makes us start biting the heads off our loved ones just because they left their shoes in the hallway...whew…sound familiar?? |
Here are some Feng Shui tips to start romancing your bedroom:
You will get results with these Feng Shui tips. Some are instant and some may take a bit. Either way what do you have to loose when there is so much to gain from making what seems like simple but very literal changes?
Want more Feng Shui enhancements to enrich your relationships, check out my eBook called Your SACRED Bedroom or try my Relationship Enhancement Packet!
- Remove all the electrical items out of the bedroom and start electrifying your relationships! Remove the TV, laptops, tablets and move the alarm clock (or your phone) at least 6 feet away from your bed. If you just can’t bear to remove the TV at a minimum place a blue cloth over it but it would be best to unplug it from the wall whenever you are not using it.
- To turn up the passion flame, remove any harsh lighting and add candles instead. They do not have to be lit to be effective.
- To improve that connection between you and your significant other make sure there are paired items in your bedroom such as two night stands or two candles. Your artwork counts too so make sure your artwork doesn't have single items in it (one house, one rose, one person).
- To only have eyes for you, make sure you only have pictures of the two of you in the bedroom so no pictures of the kiddos, relatives or other portrait type artwork.
- To improve your position make sure your bed is not in the path of your bedroom door and its best if your headboard is on a solid wall. Want to get a little creative…put your bed in the creative section of your bedroom! The creative section of any room or home is the middle right quadrant if you were to section your room/home off like a tic-tac-toe game – your door is the starting point.
- To improve feelings make sure nightwear and bedding is soft, comfortable, fresh and clean.
You will get results with these Feng Shui tips. Some are instant and some may take a bit. Either way what do you have to loose when there is so much to gain from making what seems like simple but very literal changes?
Want more Feng Shui enhancements to enrich your relationships, check out my eBook called Your SACRED Bedroom or try my Relationship Enhancement Packet!